About Me

Miriam Langsam MS/EFT-Adv/CH ~ Emotional Freedom Technique Practitioner & D.E.S.T.I.N.Y. Coach


How did you become an EFT Practitioner & D.E.S.T.I.N.Y. Coach?

MLimageOver eight years ago my “midlife career crisis” kicked in, and challenged me to unearth every bit of ingenuity & creativity that was inside me.  In fact, it made me point an inner flashlight at what is actually inside me?! Here is how my personal drama unfolded:

I owned a School Supply business for 13 years, selling multi-sensory teaching materials to the NYC Department of Ed – much of which we invented. The business was “my baby” and it was suddenly going downhill.  It took me a while till I smelled the coffee, but by then the urn was empty!

We have 8 children (3 still home, bless ‘em) and I was desperate for answers.  I was also torn between grieving for my business and strategizing on how to replace it.  My Eureka Moment came when I surreptitiously discovered Emotional Freedom Technique!  But allow me to back-track a bit…

I don’t know if it’s because I’m the daughter of Holocaust Survivors, (I’m no stranger to inner turmoil, pain and suffering) or I was simply created to be a listening ear – I remember “sharing” the challenges of my peers since elementary school!  I actually enjoyed alleviating the bumps & lumps in people’s lives in my own small way.

As I stood at the career crossroads over five years ago, it dawned on me that I have a built-in career inside me just waiting to happen!  Haven’t I been “coaching” people all my life?  With the dramatic addition of Emotional Freedom Technique I knew that Divine Providence was leading me on a lovely path that was already second nature to me!  And I’m eternally grateful that I jumped right in….


Who are your clients?

I work with authentic, intuitive and talented women just like you – women who have an abundance of gifts to offer the world, but are stuck in the quicksand of painful memories, guilt, procrastination, resentment, sadness or feeling betrayed or helpless.  They’re temporarily stuck in mind-numbing emotions that derail them from sharing their gifts & reaching their dreams.

If this sounds remarkably like you, you’re definitely in the right place.  You’re on your way to releasing your pain, (Yes, completely releasing it!) reshaping your mindset, and polishing (and expanding!) your inner- game till it shines with your true brilliance.

My clients come from all walks of life, all ages & stages. Here is a sample:

Entrepreneurs             Artists
Teachers             Holistic Healers
Web Designers             Veterans
Financial Planners             College Students
Life/Business Coaches             Baby Boomers
Fashion Designers             Virtual Assistants
Stay-at-Home Moms             CEO’s
Therapists             Psychologists
Writers             Nutritionists


How do you compare to other healers & coaches?

First of all, I’m actually very similar to the best of them, (though more humble than most) in that I strive to come from a place of genuine empathy, tolerance & compassion.

What distinguishes me and contributes to my clients’ tremendous success is threefold:

A.    My unique blend of Emotional Freedom Technique, Coaching “from the heart”, Hypnosis & and a healthy injection of the Law of Attraction is a powerful healing cocktail that simply “hits the spot”.

B.    Experience, intuition and a sense of humor don’t do any harm, either! In fact, my clients and I do it all: We laugh, we cry, we brainstorm, we throw in some therapeutic games & Drama, and celebrate the entire human condition.

C.    Here is the Crown Jewel: The 7 Step D.E.S.T.I.N.Y SystemIt’s designed to transport you through the limitations of your past, across the challenges of your current reality, and into your brilliant future.

Think of it as a 21st century Time Machine equipped with a customized itinerary and a luxurious Spa: Magically unload your weights, burdens & limiting beliefs / Embrace a rewired mindset & a Treasure Chest brimming with tools & strategies / Arrive at the finish line.  Smooth landing guaranteed!  And the ambience will knock your socks off…


What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of me?

My programs are created for people who are absolutely motivated & sincere about healing their lives & moving forward.  They’re ready to do what it takes to end the insanity of doing the same things over & over again, but expecting different results!

You will be expected to take your own growth and transformation very seriously!  If you can’t wait to take control of your life & send your inner critic into early retirement – you’re the type of person I would love to work with.

Not to worry!  I find that 99% of my clients are bright, compassionate, open to unconventional ideas that are outside their belief systems & simply enjoy the process…because healing is actually a lot of fun! (What about the other 1%?  I refer them out..; ) 


For what type of person is this system NOT going to work?

I’m definitely selective in who I work with, choosing to (gently) turn away people who aren’t suited for my programs.  The excessive whiners or chronic skeptics are not great candidates for EFT & D.E.S.T.I.N.Y Coaching.

Another type of person who wouldn’t be a good fit is someone who can’t take responsibility for her own well-being, won’t do the “homework” (usually about 3-5 minutes a day) or is a secret member of the Flat Earth Society!


What does The 7 Step D.E.S.T.I.N.Y System™ actually include?

These four components are in active duty throughout the entire 7 Step System: Mastering EFT / Customized Coaching /Hypnosis/ Internalizing the Law of Attraction


Here is a brief outline:

1. D – Destination Analysis

We’ll delve into where you’re coming from, where you are right now and where you desire to be. Conventional life & career coaching generally ignores the past making the process much longer – and quite frankly, inefficient!  Coaching combined with EFT recognizes that past experiences always shape our current mindset & decisions.

2. E – Empowerment with Emotional Freedom Technique

Painlessly eliminate the bossy negative thoughts & emotions that often run your life. In fact, you’ll discover how easily you can replace them with empowering ones that are pre-programmed to serve you. We’ll also explore why standard affirmations simply don’t work – without the “magic formula”.

3. S – Self-Acceptance

 Self-Acceptance at the soul level! You’ll unravel negative patterns of self-sabotage & reconnect with your authentic self. Self-acceptance is the foundation of healing – without it any healing process topples like a house of cards.

4.T – Transforming Trauma to Tranquility

 You’ll be effortlessly on your way to clearing out all the “stuff” that was holding you back from living your dreams. At this stage, some of my clients actually don’t recall the intensity of their original pain! This is a perfectly normal “side-effect” of emotional healing – why not experience it for yourself? : )

5. I – Inner-Game Change

Success is an Inside Job.” Lee Milteer’s famous quote carries us into the 5th component of the process:  Your I.D. – Internal Data – determines your triggers, limiting beliefs, hidden blocks & fear of failure or success. We’ll zero in and do some rewiring. You’ll soon be automatically playing a bigger game… 

6. N – Navigating New Waters

Now we’re ready to reevaluate your goals & remove any “toxic” elements from your environment. We start mapping out the proactive steps required to construct the present & future of your dreams. 

7. Y – You Finally Call the Shots!

In this final step you grow your wings!  You learn how to take total control of your relationships. You effortlessly demote your inner critic from master to slave. You dare design the finishing touches a tranquil and fulfilling present & future, which you step right into.  And you feel light as a feather!

These are the steps of The 7 Step D.E.S.T.I.N.Y System that I’ve created after working with 100’s of women over the past five years who desired to finally turn their lives around. Stop tolerating the pain – it’s time to redesign your life!


Does this really work?

Yes!!  The luscious fruits of our labor together will not only be tantalizing …But very REAL!  If you’re dedicated to overcoming your unique hurdles, get ready for an exceptional ride.  The abundance of tools that will be at your fingertips, together with the accountability & support that “makes it or breaks it” set the stage for your success.  (See Client Testimonials)


What results can I expect?

Results! That’s a great question! : )  Results come in all shapes & sizes and mean different things to different people. The total of all the results my clients experienced is in the 1,000’s!  To answer this meaningfully, let me share some *real results* with you

Here are 12 Results You can Expect:

  • Experience an astounding improvement in your personal and professional relationships.
  • Erase pain, shame, anger, sadness, resentment & guilt.
  • Replenish your creative juices & tame the procrastination monster, with none of the struggle.
  • Create a healthy self-image as your self-esteem gently morphs into who you REALLY are.
  • Many women report an astonishing increase in the quality & harmony of their marriages.
  • Discover the life-changing process of choosing healthy relationships! It’s a “no-brainer” when you’re armed with a sparkling, reprogramed mindset.
  • How do I sabotage myself? Let me count the ways…” You will suddenly break this   destructive pattern once and for all!  
  • Attract abundance & clarity into every area of your life: Emotionally, Financially & Spiritually. 
  • Achieve your authentic goals as you conquer the barriers of limiting beliefs. 
  • Enjoy the vitality, serenity & emotional well-being which is the REAL you. Use proven techniques you can apply for the rest of your life so you never have to reinvent  the  “Natural Healing Wheel” on your own.
  • Even abolish stress-related physical pain with EFT! (Good News! Over 85% is stress-related!)
  • Communicate much more effectively both socially & professionally as your speaking & listening skills are inevitably sharpened.


How quickly can I expect results?

Practically speaking, if you’re motivated to budge (gently) beyond your comfort zone you will soar with The 7 Step D.E.S.T.I.N.Y System – and a lot quicker than you expect!  Let me share a familiar scenario with you:

Countless clients come to me who have been in traditional therapy. Though it can be beneficial, for many of my clients it hadn’t made a dent!  We assess the intensity of the issue on a scale of 0 – 10, 10 being the most severe & 0 being no problem at all. When I ask some of my clients who have been in therapy for years to identify the intensity of their issue, I often hear “10.”

Conventional Talk Therapy addresses the conscious mind, while EFT with The 7 Step D.E.S.T.I.N.Y System infiltrates the subconscious – where 90% of our feelings & decisions stem from.

With that said, I still get the question “But how long will it take for me to feel 100% better/or achieve the changes that I’m searching for?”  Though I don’t own a crystal ball, I can guarantee that you will notice a significant shift in the right direction during our very first session! (Or it’s FREE!)  How can I guarantee this? Because my experience working with women just like you have repeatedly shown me that this is a realistic expectation – and that’s more valuable than a crystal ball!


Miriam, based on everything I’ve read and heard about you, I know you’re the one I want to work with. What are my options for getting started with you?

Congratulations on making a life-changing decision!  The most prominent characteristic of successful people is that they take action! I’m thrilled to help you bring balance, healing, joy & clarity into your life. Take a look at the three The 7 Step D.E.S.T.I.N.Y System programs described on the Program page. One of them should be perfect for you!


If I’m not sure I’m ready to get started, how can I sample your work to see if it’s a right match for me?

Great! Here are two ways:

1. At the Subscription box, you can order my FREE EFT Audio CD and get a good taste of my style & approach.  And you’ll let me know if you’ve developed an appetite for more.

2. When you order the CD you’ll be subscribed to my FREE weekly EFT Destiny Audio, which you can instantly download.  You’ll receive a weekly EFT MP3 Audio, along with a customizable transcript in Microsoft Word. 


OK, I’m ready to do this for myself, but I have a couple of additional questions. Can I call you?

Absolutely! It sounds like you’re ready to hop into the Time Machine & be pulled into your future!  Call me at 718.854.3808 and I’ll walk you through the different options to see which one is the very best for you. I can’t wait to see you succeed and am honored to be part of your journey!






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